I have heard men make this statement:
“She chose, HIM? I look way better than he does.”
Do women care about looks? Of course we do…to an extent. A good hearted woman also cares about the character of a man. The next thing after being confident is being self-absorbed. There is no such thing as being “overly confident”. Either someone is insecure, confident or arrogant.
In many cases, if a woman chooses, what you assume is a downgrade because it was not you…that is probably why she did not want you. It is often the issue of poor character. People want mutual respect….to know that they are supported in their dreams, loved, and a humble person, etc. You could be walking on one leg (nothing wrong with that) if you truly love that woman that you are with….she is yours and you are hers, and no man in her eyes, is better than you.
If you have to joke about why she is so swept off of her feet by this <supposed> “ugly man”…you may want to take some time alone and learn to love💘, <<you>>.
Of course there are the opportunist women…the jezebels of our time, but that is for another day.
Guys, keep your heads up. If she moved on, let her be happy. Question very little if possible, and you move on and be happy to. We are living on such borrowed time to be so hung up on relationships that did not work out. Take everything as a lesson for growth.
(Proverbs 4:25) “Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee.”