You know those kind of days where you had to get work done at home….didn’t sleep until almost 4am, and had to be up by 6:30am to take your kid to daycare, and head straight to work? Yes! I do to. I am literally running on “E”. I did not stop for coffee, and all I’m thinking about, is….what I’ll cook for dinner today.๐Ÿ˜


We are not called to be in close, personal quarters, with everyone. As a Christian woman, it has been vital to understand the meaning of: [๐Ÿ’•LOVE๐Ÿ’•], while at the same time guarding my heart, dignity and virtue……especially when it comes to men. They are more easily swayed, but women are quick to run and mend wounds (that aren’t for us to mend). If you give them your peace, so that they can attain their own, they will take it….but….they may not always take YOU, with it. They will divide your rubies among those in their home, even among their harlots….(pretending that what they took from you, is their own), and leave you desolate…..nothing more than a shell.

For this reason I believe, that we (women) need to let men be true men. In other words…..let them learn from their own mistakes. Only leaving for them, messages of hope and prayers beneathe the rocks…along their straight and narrow path.

If their heart is in the right direction, they will find [Yeshuah]. If not….then you were spared from their destruction.

 Never pour out and empty of yourself, the investment that God placed in you, lest you become spiritually, BANKRUPT. 

Confessions of an 8 year old….(Confessing Sins)

As my 8 year old confessed his sins…I braced myself. He tends to come clean about things I never expected….and even though he faces consequences, I let him know how proud I am of his honesty. There is a safety rule in my home for my son. [No Secrets!] The reason why?….”You’re not going to be honest with me….and I’m paying for your way in, LIFE?!” 

That is not the reason๐Ÿ˜‚ ยกPERO, VERDAD! BUT, FOR REAL! Jajajajajajajajajaj

The reason why I named it a “safety rule”, is because , confessing our sins one to another, blesses us with forgiveness and spiritual freedom (James 5:16; 1 John 1:9). No, I don’t mean to a priest. I’m not Catholic. I’m Apostolic/Pentecostal. 

Satan takes joy in setting up temptations for us, watching us fall flat on our faces, and then being the accuser of us, once we fell into the sins HE , orchestrated. After we’ve done dirt, we then are too ashamed to face the Lord. If we allow the enemy to cause us to feel guilty, he can easily take our praise, our worship and wreck our prayer lives….which by the way, prayer for the believer and follower of Christ, gets us into direct contact with Jesus……if the enemy can take all of that away (because we give it to him)….he then, is able to disarm us of the weapons needed for spiritual warfare. I MOST CERTAINLY, teach this to my 8 year old. Vital information that he needs to know.

Holding on to sin, is such an unintended burden straight from hell. This is not God’s will. Before my baby told me all that he had to say…he was so scared. He was trembling and pacing back and fourth, as if he were going to be condemned. It took him a while to get his words out, and here is where my patience runs thin. I’m the kind of person where, if you need to say something….juuuuust say it. But I have to remeber that he’s 8, and getting through one sentence of a story, when it comes to a child, requires an {intermission} ๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‘. 

So after he confessed. We talked. We glorified the Lord in scripture and prayer, and my son said to me: ” I feel so much better!! Is it normal that I just want to smile alot!?” I said: ” ABSOLUTELY! You feel God’s forgiveness and love! You feel freedom!” This is what Jesus wants….our honest confessions and repentance in exchange for His forgiveness and freedom through salvation in Jesus’ name. It was so beautiful how it all ended as compared to how it began. He initially felt fearful. That liar, the devil will always use the spirit of fear to try to keep us from the truth (2 Timothy 1:7). Something so dishonorable to the Lord…sin, when confessed and when we repent, He is so quick to forgive us and blot out our sins with His blood. 


I explained to my son, that the word of God is our weapon and is our way of eacape when we are faced with temptations. I said to him, we can say that we are Christians, but if we don’t study the word of God and live it, it doesn’t matter what we claim to be. He then gives me one of the most clear cut examples. He said;

“It’s like having a house, but having nothing in it…no windows, no roof, no doors, no furniture….”

That made me want to cry. I was so in awe of the Lord, all the more, because in the midst of something that could have gone wrong…His spirit was with us, and He was glorified…through the confession of sins. Praise God! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ

Confessions of a Writer: Jesus prevails!

There is no thought, nor human wisdom, that is greater than the mind of Christ. If you are unsure about something…..anything, pray about it. Don’t worry yourself into stress…Just simply, pray. 

(1 Corinthians 2:9) ” But as it is written, no eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have enetered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love Him.” 

Men…”Character”…it matters to Women.

I have heard men make this statement:

“She chose, HIM? I look way better than he does.”

Do women care about looks? Of course we do…to an extent. A good hearted woman also cares about the character of a man. The next thing after being confident is being self-absorbed. There is no such thing as being “overly confident”. Either someone is insecure, confident or arrogant. 

In many cases, if a woman chooses, what you assume is a downgrade because it was not you…that is probably why she did not want you. It is often the issue of poor character. People want mutual respect….to know that they are supported in their dreams, loved, and a humble person, etc. You could be walking on one leg (nothing wrong with that) if you truly love that woman that you are with….she is yours and you are hers, and no man in her eyes,  is better than you. 

If you have to joke about why she is so swept off of her feet by this <supposed> “ugly man”…you may want to take some time alone and learn to love๐Ÿ’˜, <<you>>.  

Of course there are the opportunist women…the jezebels of our time, but that is for another day. 

Guys, keep your heads up. If she moved on, let her be happy. Question very little if possible, and you move on and be happy to. We are living on such borrowed time to be so hung up on relationships that did not work out. Take everything as a lesson for growth.  

(Proverbs 4:25) “Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee.”

God Bless!