Who is this fun for? The one who does it for “Kicks”….or the one who falls in love? Because really, there is rarely ever two hearts beating on one accord, as there is one heart in discord with the other. The one who does it for fun, is the fighter, while the other is the lover. There is no gain in a fight, only turmoil and emotional drainage. Both hearts end up with the shorter end of the stick.
Promiscuity is downplayed in our society. Love is not required to lie down with the next person, but when the natural resulting occurrences of sex appear, which includes; emotions, concern, awareness, love, etc. The one who woke up and is overcome with these feelings and realizations is deemed crazy, while the one still lost in a dream fades away. And in today’s world, “Casual sex” means people know a bit too much about one another to call it casual, and not enough to call it a commitment. Who is this fun for?
(Proverbs 1:7) “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.”