Be a MAN!!!!

Our  little  boys  are  being  wired  with  this  false  notion,  that  “manning  up”  equates  to  behaving  like  they  are  made  of  stone…..time  to  show  them  that  being  in  touch  with  their  emotions,  and  not  masking  them,  makes  them  very  MASCULINE.

 

Be  a  man!
I  better  not  catch  you  crying,
with  your  head  held  in  your  hands!

Man  up!
Don’t  be  a  little  punk!
you  “let” them  beat  on  you,
then  you  deserve  to  be  called  junk.

Be  a  man!
Quit  being  a  sissy!
You  hang  out  with  little  girls?
You’re  not  tough!
You  are  prissy!

Man  up!
Fight!
Show  me  what  you  got!
No  woman  wants  a  man,
who  cries,  sniffles  and  snots.

Be  a  man!
You’re  8  years  old!
You  are  not  a  little  “boy”!
Time to  grow  a  pair….
put  away  these  baby  toys!

It  starts  off  young.
Our  boys  are  taught,
from  birth,
to  hold  it  in…..

Emotions,
true  feelings,
even  pain,
that  spreads  their  fragile  hearts  thin.

We  teach  them,
that  to  be  “A  man”,
they  must  fight,
and  push  around,

They  must  always  go
against  the  grain,
They  are  “weak”  if  they  find  common  ground.

Making  peace,
means  they’ve  given  in,
they’re  no  longer  strong….
they’re  no  longer  men.

We  teach  them,
that  they  must  do  what  they  must……
give  into  temptation,
give  into  lust.

Because  oversexed  boys,
is  “what  society  needs”…
more  babies  born,
through  watching  porn,
more  innocent  mouths  to  feed.

They  are  not  being  taught
to  love  so  much,
that  their  love hits the  heart….
even  more  than  touch.

They  are  not  being  told
that  they  are  GREAT…..
that  their  empathy  makes  them  sweet,
and  that  their firmness  towards  what’s  right,
settles  down  the  HATE.

They  are  not  being  hugged…
They  are  not  being  kissed…
They  are  not  permitted  to  cry….
SOCIETY!
What  have  we  missed?

These  boys  will  soon  grow  up,
and  marry  our  daughters,
parent  our  grandchildren,
We’re  setting  their  relationships  up,
to  be  slaughtered.

They  hear  the words…

SISSY!
PUNK!
LOSER!
COWARD!

And  we  expect  them,
to  be  able  to  live  positively,
and  move  forward.

We  arrest  their  development,
emotionally,
and  get  mad  when  they  do  their  dirt,
in  secrecy.

We  tell  them  crying  is  for  girls,
when  they’re  on  the  verge  of  breakdown…
and worry  when  it’s  12am,
and  our  boys  are  no  where  around.

We  fill  the system,
the  prison  cells,
and  caged  in  yards….
with  emotionless, wild  men….
because  we  detached  them  from  being  nurtured,
when  we  should  have  set  them  up,  to  win.

Desensitized  boys,
are  societies
murderers,
rapists,
bullies,
abusers…..
because  they’ve  been  trained  to  believe,
that  they’re  losers.

So  Dad’s  kiss  your  boys,
give  them  hugs,
good  chance  they’ll  end up,
choosing  love  over  drugs.

Mother’s,
tell  your boys  that  real  men,
share  their  hearts.
They  will  end  up  being  fathers,
outwardly  expressive,
building  up…
not  taring  apart.

Society,
get  a  grip!
Perhaps  some  therapy  as  well,
the  poison  you’ve  been  delivering  to  our  daughters  and  son’s,
will  land them  straight  in  hell.

Boys,
understand,  that  you  are  not  made  of  stone.
Don’t  ever  be  afraid  of  crying….
being  in  your  emotions….
You  don’t  have  to  be  alone.

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