Complex men are like this.
Anything that you do right, you lose. (Do not be too passionate or they equate that to being weird or scary.)
Anything that you do wrong, you are never forgotten. (Don’t you dare give to them what they are giving to you..no hope for a future.)
I will take the man who is “certain”, over the man who hides behind personal philosophies to cover damaged complexity. What a mind boggling game