I am a snow baby. I was born in the dead of winter. I LOVE the snow and can’t wait for next snow season. Here are some very disagreeable things said about my kind:
1.) We hide our feelings.
Answer: Not true. Read my writing.
2.) We do not need nor want help.
Answer: For the most part, being self-sufficient is the most ideal, but isn’t that the truth for anyone? I believe in team work, and helping one another gets us to our goals. I will say this though…..I don’t like my time wasted, and if that is the case, then please step aside.
3.) We are easily angered.
Answer: I don’t like ignorance, illogical behavior and stupidity (not including playful stupidity), and I voice that truth, as needed.
4.) We are unforgiving and we hold grudges.
Answer: I believe in the Lord and His forgiveness. One without sin, could forgive me, a sinner? How can I not be forgiving? Hooooooooooowever, choosing to do the same hurtful and oppressive things over and over and over again, and not giving my forgiveness a chance to even get warm before you are back at it , it is not me being unforgiving, it is me being fed up. At that point, you are being careless and you are messing with me . Someone once told me, that I needed to set boundaries, and that’s not okay. Yet, I will still forgive you, but you won’t be in my life. One can only take so much human to human pain.
5.) Capricorns do not easily let people in emotionally, because when we love, we love for life and we have a hard time letting them go.
Answer: This truth is partially correct (speaking for myself). It is hard letting people go, because to love is to be sincere. If you can let someone go that easily, then how could you have sincerely cared for them or loved them? I love for life, whoever will love me for life……admittedly, even those who don’t (but it is a human to human love. The feelings are different at that point), and when I say love, I mean that in action, not just in word. As far as letting people in emotionally……I would rather take my chances and do so, than to never get to the root and honesty of people’s hearts. I do love pretty hard though, and that can leave me in total bliss, or curled up in a ball, weeping my eyes out……it happens, but we get over it. 😉
7.) We make big deals out of small things.
Answer: It’s not my fault if I put all of my white towels with the white towels, and I see a red one lying right on top……..and I lose it. You should have known, that I have hints of OCD. 😀 Other than that, I take comfort in being mellow and laid back, and when I am not, there is something seriously wrong, and I expect you to hear it out so that you will see my point clearly. That is important to me.
8.) We initially throw people off about us.
Answer: If you see me quiet, it is because I am in deep thought, or just shy……or seriously thinking, about my next move. That can go any way you want it to. What I display in front of those that I do not know, is totally different than what I show those who know me. If you know me, or I am completely comfortable around you, I will probably make your jaw drop. *SURPRIIIISE!!!!!!!*
8.) We are hard to please
Answer: I’m not. Although I do have my standards, and at this point in my life, I’m a bit more adamant about them.
9.) Status seeking
Answer: I’m happy being, “Me”. ❤
10.) We are so careful!
Answer: Let’s sit down together and have a coffee. I will tell you how untrue that tale is. 😀