Oh, can he? You mean, he can do better than the wife he prayed to God for? The wife he searched for? The wife he received?
No matter who you find….no matter who you are deceived to believe that you have found “better” with…you made a covenant and a promise before God, with “1”. Although you may try to forget that, God never will. While you lower your standards and morals for something worldly, because no Godly and intelligent woman will want a man who began his family on the beliefs of sound Christian doctrine, and because of his foolishness, disrespect and tiredness of carrying out his promises and responsibilities, let “family” slip through the cracks and fall a part. However, trust and believe, God will mend what you broke, and rapidly.
Be careful what you ask for in life. Be prepared to be humble and give yourself to your wife, as Christ has loved the church and gave Himself for it. If you love your wife, with such Godly love, she will follow you with a willing heart, because where you will lead, will be in God’s direction, and will Bless and multiply your family. But when you live with disrespect in your heart, and slack for the things that keep your family whole in Christ, don’t go pointing fingers, man up and take responsibility. When your wife is weak, YOU lean on God, to give you strength to hold you up, so that you can hold her up. When you hold her up, in return she will fight for you and with you against every tactic from hell.
I am so tired of how we (the church) are letting satan set up shop in our homes, and letting him have his way. No woman should ever have to make the choice to leave in order to provide a safe haven for her and her children….and no man, who claims he loves his family, should ever lack so much self-discipline and obedience to Christ, that he let’s it get to that point.
There is no time for this foolishness. Jesus is on His way back. Love one another, the right way! 🙂
❤ Raven Nicole`